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My simple advice would be to.
1. Send them to boarding school now.....It will toughen them up.
2. You could also send them to a boot camp? That will definently make them work.
Somtimes there is simply nothing you can do for a kid. In that case you should let them spend time with people who have no inhibitations about teaching them to toughen up...boarding school will make them alot more active...because the more they dont excell there the more their lives will degrade.
Their lack of motivation isnt your fault. Its there's...if they dont have respect for themselves then no one else should.
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