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Originally Posted by Munku
Having sex with someone of the same sex does NOT make you gay or bisexual. The only way you could be gay or bixsexual is if you have feelings that go beyong sex. Feelings that you truly care and want to spend your time with that person.
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*nods...
There's really very little about sex that makes a person bi, gay, or straight. It might confirm what you felt, or challenge you about your ideas of idenity. But it can't put ideas in your head, or feelings in your heart.
I was once asked to "prove" that i'm bi, b/c i haven't had a major relationship with a man or fucked around. My answer is that i haven't done much of that with women, either...but i'm pretty damn sure i like them. A relationship (and the sex that may include) is something i do with someone else. Being bi, is something i do all by myself.
And for the question? Most definitely.