I certainly like it better without a condom, in fact I've only been able to orgasm a couple of times with a condom and it meant quite rough sex, which my partner wasn't really in to.
If your boyfriend can orgasm with the condom on, without any problems and without complaining then certainly keep using them. If he can't orgasm or it takes too long, needs to be too rough then you will certainly be sure that your birth control pill will be sufficient and you really don't have too much to worry about at all. But of course you'd be wise to discuss with your boyfriend what the plans would be if you were to become pregnant. Whatever your plans are, whatever you two agree on, that should be enough to put your mind at ease. Confidence in your partner and in your methods of protection make some of the best sex.
Once you guys have agreed on what to do in the very, very unlikely event of becoming pregnant, you should be fine without a condom. But if your boyfriend is happy with the condom, and so are you, then there's no need to change anything and that added assurance will be helpful.
Good on you for being so careful about all of this, by the way!
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