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Rich (I'm guessing) probably feels that Janie has a more relaxed attitude toward sex and might not value it as much as him. This will also let him wonder whether he is 'just another' blip on her activity. What will she say of him some day? These can add up and mess with his head a lot. Add into it that Janie has admitted a lessening of her sexual drive, orgasms and obviously her infatuation with Rich and now you'll have all these insecurities building up making him think he IS just an ex.
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Exactly. Insecurity can be a bitter and very difficult enemy in a relationship, and you can't blame the problems that arise from it on any one person in the relationship. You just have to be open and communicate. She has to know his insecurities and take them into consideration, and he has to try to understand or believe that what she's saying isn't going to necessarily be a slight on him, but simply part of the communication in the relationship.