Come clean to your friend, get him away from her, if you don't have the balls to just admit that you've been messing around with his girl, then you can go teh ball-less way and hide behind the "I was high at the time," excuse. If he's been suicidal before, you need to mvoe slowly and not overwhelm him. Right now, it sounds llike he can relapse into suicidal depression if things don't go well, and if you're any kind of friend you'll focus on that before anything else. It's better to risk losing him as a friend by coming clean and talking than to risk him finding out suddenly and snapping, possibly hurting others along with himself.
Basically, you can't hide from the fact that you fucked up, and you need to do everything you can to set things right again.
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