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Hmm... I'm not so sure I would discuss it with her first.
The reason I say this is because as far as I see, nothing good can come from it. Let's say she likes you more than she likes Nathan. Then you get the girl, and your former friend will hate you for the rest of eternity. Another option is that she likes you but you flat out refuse to date her for Nathan's sake. In that case, you will harbor resentment for Nathan, even though he has done nothing wrong in this situation.
If you talk to her and tell her you are going to tell Nathan - or if she feels you might - she might try to give the story her own spin, and there is no telling what she might say. It may or may not be the truth, but if your mate is going to find out that you have been messing around with his girlfriend, it's best it comes from you.
As far as the girl goes, obviously she's a bitch. If she's willing to cheat on your best friend, what makes you think that she wouldn't cheat on you? Why would you want to date her - from your post, it doesn't seem like she has that many wonderful qualities nor morals....
Then again, we didn't much delve into what she's like, it just seems to me that a woman that cheats on her boyfriend with his best friend, in her boyfriends house, repeatedly... even when their relationship is "strong" and he is trying to fix any issues she may have had with him... wouldn't be a good gal to date.
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