You are not an asshole. You want attention and it seems like your friend is taking what he has for granted.
She, on the other hand, is using you as an outlet and you shouldn't stand for it. As a female I have seen the opposite situation with friends where the guy is teasing around.
You deserve a person to have for yourself...you don't have to take the leavings of another person. Let her know exactly that. You are important enough to deserve a full-fledged relationship. And if she can't give that to you, you are finding it somewhere else.
Don't let her use you as an outlet or a revenge plan or whatever...and don't take the chance of breaking a friendship that is more important than a cockteasing chick.
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