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Originally Posted by Averett
So now you're not normal unless you like having sex with a spoon shoved up your butt or something?
Everyone has to have some kind of kink?
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Spoon, no. Salad tongs...well...=) (Kidding)
Seriously, tho. I don't think anyone is saying folks SHOULD be kinky or not kinky. For those of us who DO get turned on by thrills or leather or boots or spoons up the butt, it's sometimes difficult to imagine that others don't have something similar. Having lived my life always getting a serious sexual charge out of one thing or another, it's difficult to imagine that my wife doesn't experience the same thing.
The country is divided politically, so why not the kinks vs. the no-kinks!
I should add, that I'm not suggesting that all sex must be kinky or that I don't fully appreciate good, loving, emotionally-connected vanilla sex. I believe that each has it's place in a relationship. For those of us with partners who don't share our more eccentric interests, it just means that we don't get to express that side of ourselves as often or at all.