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Originally Posted by Mr Jiggyfly
She talks a good game, but when it comes down to it... she'd rather have one-on-one hetero-sex. She's not a prude, and not timid or quiet... and she always says what she means and means what she says.
Now... I'm pretty open minded... and have a few kinks/fetishes of my own. I'm willing to try pretty much anything once. With the amount of pleasure I get just from simply seeing a woman in boots... I can't imagine anyone not having a passion for "something".
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I'm in much the same situation that you've described. We've been married 6 years this year. My wife is wonderful, sweet, open-minded and very open sexually, she just doesn't have any sort of psychological sexual trigger, either. We have a good, if 95% vanilla, sex life--tho not as frequent as either of us would like since our son was born.
Well, to be honest, she may have one possible kink, but won't admit to it as a kink. Totally by accident, we discovered that she really likes to get dressed up, go out, have a nice dinner, a few drinks and on the way home park in some secluded spot and get it on in the back seat. We've established that she's not an exhibitionist and doesn't have a thing for cars...just for high-school-like back seat sex once or twice a month.
So I guess my point is that maybe she does have something that turns her into a tiger and may not be comfortable with the idea of it being a kink.
Anyone else in this boat?