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After I read your post, I had to re-read it and then check the poster's name to make sure _I_ hadn't posted it, circa 1999. You're in my old shoes. I know they feel like shit, but the good thing is, there are other shoes. The thing I realized is that by not being more outgoing/assertive, i was just WAITING for ANY girl to approach- and with that attitude, you'll take the first one to come along, no matter what "red flags" would normally be set off.
My friends kinda tried to tell me, but I wouldn't hear it until we finally broke up. My first of everything- relationship, sex partner, everything.
STAY the nice guy that you are. I would just recommend being a little more outgoing, it worked wonders for me. It restored confidence, I got more friends, and I met more girls. There are lots of girls looking for a nice guy. Lots of HOT girls. Just be that nice guy that you are and keep looking- you'll find her soon enough.
Good luck, and keep your head up.
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