my partner doesn't have any kinks either. we've been together for a few years now and i've asked him repeatedly for some fantasy i can act out for him...nada. i have quite a few and i've learned to just be happy i have such an accomodating lover. he's willing to try whatever turns me on, and provided it doesn't turn him off, he'll do it at my request.
i just let him know that whenever he discovers something he might like to try--feel free to tell me cause i'd love to give it a go (provided it doesn't violate my very generous bedroom rules).
i understand your frustration. i really wish i could give to my partner the same pleasure he gives me when indulging one of my kinks.
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