well, you have to do what I did- find a girl that likes girls as much as you do, but likes you much, much more. lol... this way you get alerts on hot girls and can point them out to her.
But in your case, I agree with what a few have already said. Have a talk about it. Be sincere and firm on the fact that while looking is COMPLETELY natural, you're not shopping, you're just seeing what everyone else is after while you've already found yours.
I don't know if anyone else's mom said this to them, but when i was in a store and touched something or picked something up and i'd say, "but i'm looking at it", she'd say something that is perfectly fitting here- "We look with our eyes, not with our hands."
Also, make sure if you're caught that you don't defend your actions. Defending yourself makes it appear you are guilty of something and trying to weasel out. Just admit you were looking, but that it doesn't matter because you've already got what you could ever want.
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