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Originally Posted by Paul67
I think we need a more open minded moderator!
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You're welcome to disagree with me, and since there are 28 of us including admins, you're likely to agree with at least one of us on any given issue. I'm open-minded, but there are some things that I don't agree with in any circumstance, and fucking around behind your partner's back instead of trying to solve problems is one of them.
To give more substance to my post, and let you see where I'm coming from, I'll elaborate.
I place a lot of value on trust. People have to earn it from me, and after violating it, they don't get it back. Cheating on someone after agreeing to those vows in front of all of those witnesses is a big breach of trust. If you're having problems after years of marriage, you should talk to them before doing anything else. If you can't talk to someone about a problem after years, you either shouldn't have been married in the first place, or something needs to change. If nothing changes, the marriage needs to end. It's unfortunate that it would come to that, but it's better than lying to yourself and trying to look like you're happy.