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Monogomy contains alot of dedication and hard work. Like a craftsman who takes time to polish and perfect his craft in the image he has in mind, so does monogomy create somethign new - where two were, there now is a one stronger whole entity.
It is true - before you leap up in protest - we all exist seperatly in our own skins. But what is skin, but something constantly regenerating to keep our innards in. It is the ability of the human mind to conceive and create, and rather than confining or restricting a person - a monogomous relationship gives you room, space, freedom to grow.
And do you not reevaluate any relationship you are in? Monogomous or otherwise? Reevaluation is not seperate from the issue. In truth, th emore a monogomous relationship is reevaluated - and the decision is remade everyday to commit (because it is not a once vow - it is a vow to make that vow over and over again as shure as the sun will rise) and that commitment makes the union stronger.
From a strong and solid base anything can be had. Do you have money? Do you need it? You work and a strong solid relationship and societies problems will fall to the wayside. Worries about payments, alimony, child support, the fear, the wonder of who is with what and doing what, and the mistrust. The doubts and mistrust are absent from a healthy and well maintained monogomous relationship.
Such a union needs no defense. If you have seen one succeede, even where one hundered have failed, you know its merits. You can see its strength. You know it is good.
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And so its over
Your fantasy life is finally at an end
And the world above is still a brutal place
And the story will start again
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