crumbbum rather than to post a statement I'll post a link. Scroll down and you will see the list of Israeli soldiers. You can see a few of their pics, but its their letters that Im most interested that you read (if/when you get the time). Hearing things from their perspective will give you another angle to view. Not to change your stance, but contribute to it being more rounded.
http://www.couragetorefuse.org/defaulteng.asp