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Well, as someone in a year-log polyamorous relationship, I've got to say that the notion of it works for me. What you said about the constant reevaluation of your relationships is dead on, too. My primary relationship, my marriage with lurkette, is so much more vital and alive now, out of the examination and soul-searching we've done inside this new context.
lurkette and I are quite clear that a long-term committed relationship with another woman is in our future. The relationship we have now may or may not be that, that's a bit up in the air right now. But there's no chance of us going back to how things were. Or at least, not any time soon.
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