You'll know when you have one. When I first started having sex, I didn't have one via intercourse for several months....and I felt clueless as well, not knowing whether I'd have one or not, because it felt good, just not *great* like everyone said it was. Also, direct clitoral stimulation can be too ....stimulating ( I can't think of a better word) and even painful for some women. Have you tried putting a soft cloth barrier, like silky panties, between yourself and your hand/vibrator? Or try touching the area around it, just not directly.
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