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I know that everyone jumps to the knee-jerk "no, it's wrong." I used to be the first one to snap back with that. But let's face it...isn't withholding sex and passion also a breach of the marriage contract? We NEED a good sex life to be healthy. I believe a lot of people need it as much as food and water. Our society's repression of sex causes a ton of problems.
I believe you need to try everything you can with your wife. After that, the answers aren't easy despite the hammer you're going to get from some people. I'm in the same boat as you. I've been married a looooooong time, I've never cheated, I'm attentive and I've tried everything. But she doesn't want sex much, period. And it's not going to get any better. You have a tough call to make. Give it your best shot with your wife. After that..??????
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