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tomintroy · 11-16-2004, 04:15 AM

I've dated her 4 months, I just learned of her past. Her last LTR was from 90 to 95, 3 months into that relationship she took a vacation to Tahit and Fucked someone. That seems to be what she's done in every relationship she's had. (Vacation cheating) In her marrige she cheated from Just before their wedding day to 3 months after saying I do.I can't justify my reaction to what I've learned. At an Intelectual level I completely want to let go of this but theirs a pit in my stomach that won't leave. I have taken some time away from her to try and put closer on my attitude, but I'm worried that this break will be hard on her self estem and end her feelings toward me.

11-16-2004, 04:15 AM	#100 (permalink)
tomintroy Upright	I've dated her 4 months, I just learned of her past. Her last LTR was from 90 to 95, 3 months into that relationship she took a vacation to Tahit and Fucked someone. That seems to be what she's done in every relationship she's had. (Vacation cheating) In her marrige she cheated from Just before their wedding day to 3 months after saying I do.I can't justify my reaction to what I've learned. At an Intelectual level I completely want to let go of this but theirs a pit in my stomach that won't leave. I have taken some time away from her to try and put closer on my attitude, but I'm worried that this break will be hard on her self estem and end her feelings toward me.