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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
I wonder how some people would feel if they were asked the number of their partners and were rejected because the number was too low for the person asking
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I wouldn't feel bad at all because if they are rejecting me because of a low number then I'm pretty certain they likely wouldn't match up to my standards either so it's best things get cut off early. Besides it's you REALLY wanted that person it's a whole helluva lot easier to ADD to a number than go back in time and subtract from it.
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The people hung up on numbers really need to get a clue and look at the relationship as a whole.....what matters is if your partner is with you and you only (unless youre a swinging couple...but then swinging couples dont look down on numbers) who gives a flying turd what they did BEFORE THEY EVEN KNEW YOU.
If sexual integrity is "sacred" to you...then you need to find out what they did before they get to the level of "significant other" with you.
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Agreed that's why this should be asked early in the relationship as opposed to some folks saying don't worry about it. Ask and if it's too much for your ego...then beat feet before you get too attached.