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She still claims she wants to make the marriage work and I can't help but respect that.
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Respect the fact that she's manipulating you? That's what she's doing when she says that.
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I'm so absolutely confused at the fact the she still claims to love me dearly and wants to be with me
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I hate to say it, but she's lying.
There is no love in that relationship no matter how you slice it. If she truly loved you, she would stop. She is making a CONSCIOUS choice to sleep, and flirt with other men. Do not fall into a trap.
It's painful, I can imagine. But if you want to keep your sanity, you need to kick her to the curb.
I wish you good luck with whatever you decide to do.