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Originally Posted by Rich
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I'm at a loss.... She came to me to tell me about this posting. I'm trying to control her by not letting her get her own advice? I didn't even know this board existed until she came to ME and told me of it, and opened it for me, and logged onto her own account so I could view it, and post a reply (hence my first posting is under her name). Every post I've written on here, except for this one, was with her sitting right beside me, she's read what I've said, and agreed with what I've said. So, I say again, I'm at a loss. I really don't see how I'm trying to control her when she was the one who came to me without any prompting on my part.
I'm sorry I've posted on here at all now. I came here in good spirits hoping someone would help us out, and I've been consistently attacked for it. I'm sorry you seem to have such ill feelings towards me. I guess I deserve it.
Rich
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Hey man,
Don't take it so personally... you're still new so it takes a while to get used to how things go around here. It's just that many of us have some very strong opinions about relationships and sexuality. I'm certain no one is out to get your skin for this.
I've been through similar situations as you have, and despite my best efforts to be open-minded I do find myself harboring some double standards, and it is a daily struggle to keep myself in check and practice what I preach.
Don't worry son, you'll be alright. And by the way.... welcome to TFP.