Looks like you guys are doing the right thing talking about it, and being open with one another. Carry on doing that and things might work out fine. Try dating one another again, start the relationship afresh as if you are both strangers, and see what happens differently. I don't know, it looks like you've worked through the worst of it.
As someone else mentioned, the fact that she says she's not 'IN' love with he sounds important. Loving, but not being IN love doesn't make sense. Are you friends or lovers? Do either of you consider getting into other relationships? Are you holding onto one another because there isn't anything else out there right now? These might be the hardest questions of all to even think about, let alone answer truthfully (even if you only answer to yourself)
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