Pandabear, there is a big difference between cheating and looking -- even fantasizing. If you are tempted to cheat, you need (imho) to seek counseling and/or talk about it with your SO. And wiat to be out of the relationship before getting involved with another! Make a clean break (not a break overshadowed by "the other man.") If you are just looking, have fun! (Let's face it, men have looked and fantasized for years -- why can't we!?)
