Originally Posted by Janie

We haven't been to couple councelling, though we have gone to see a doctor about the lack of sexual activity.

The problem is I feel that I do love him, but I'm not in love with him. That romantic aspect of it is almost completely destroyed because of the months of sexual dissatisfaction. We have set a deadline, that is, if things don't seem to be improving by the new year, then we'll end it. What I want is to help things to get better so it doesn't get to that point. I don't know it that's silly or just wishful thinking on my part.