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I just posted something similar in another thread, and sorry if this has been said before here. I don't think anyone should divulge the numbers, especailly the older you get. No good ever comes out of that kind of conversation, someone walks aways feeling insecure, whether it be for being too dirty or too prudish.
I'm a 35 yr old single woman who's never been married. I'm not constantly in relationships, but I enjoy sex. I suppose you could call me a "serial monogamist". I'm not even sure how many guys I've been with at this point in time, not because I'm a dirty whore, but at some point it ceases to matter. What matters is how YOU view the hookups. If you're running around spreading your legs for everyone who asks..... yeah, that could be troublesome. But if you're dating a nice person, and your'e careful, and no harm done for either i.e. cheating, lying, etc........then why not?
The bigger question I guess would be............ what DOES make someone a slut? For men AND women? is it numbers, or is it the way they go about having sex with people? It's such a grey area, I'm sure that could be debated forever with no real defining conclusions. (shrug)
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