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I think you already know the reason why he's so uppity about your past - he wasn't able to control his own actions and he couldn't deal with it so he's trying to control yours. He can't accept that you don't have the same rules as him, and it's double hard since he broke his own rules and hates himself because of it.
To be honest I do have a couple of jealousy issues with my partners, and I put that down to the fact that my first love cheated on me and left me for someone else, that AND she was cheating on her partner with me when I first met her. All of that took me a while to figure out, and come to terms with. I went from denial to anger and all those stages, now I've accepted that I shouldn't have encouraged her to cheat, and she shouldn't have done it to me, but the past is the past and I've learned from it and accepted it.
But no matter how you look at it your relationship with this guy is over and you're both going to be better off because of it. You'll find someone that is accepting of your past and he'll find someone with his same morals and high standards.
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