Originally Posted by Janie

Through this all, I suffered (and am still suffering) a huge downward spiralling libido. This also caused many arguments and sleepless nights. First I orgasmed rarely, then none at all, then I just didn't want to have sex anymore. Every time I didn't orgasm he'd curl up into a corner and cry and ask me why I didn't love him, to which I repeatedly answered that I did, but he continued to ask me questions like that. He was also under the impression that sex in my other long-term relationship was stellar and wholly without problems, to which I also assured him it was not perfect.