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Agree with Lockjaw. It's not going to get better.
BUT: I didn't hear you talk about couples counseling. Maybe if you really wanted to be with him, counseling would work. But ti takes two to tango, and it sounds like you're "outta there."
Lots of couples break up, and remain friends.
You can do this if you don't do or say anything that you are not proud of later.
The other side of this is maybe the two of you didn't get to the really wonderful space of where you can be completely honest with each other. Trusting.
You know, things turn on the head of a pin. They really do. I practice law, and each case in the complex matters I deal with (3-4 years of heated litigation) always seem to turn on the head of a pin. Relationships are the same, in my experience.
If you want to chat more, let me know. I have more to share on this thread.
God bless.
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