|
The only thing I can say is that I understand your situation and I don't think that you want for yourself to resolve this situation, you want to resolve this for your kid. Its a great parental instinct to have but for some situations it just doesn't work. It seems like you grew up and accepted the responsibility of being a parent and an adult and your wife isn't coming to that understanding. Its been my experience, having been cheated on numerous times that once you give them that assurance that its okay even after they've cheated once they know you're not going to have the gall to stand up for yourself and stop this from happening. As others have said you need to take the kid, but not for revenge, revenge shouldn't ever cross your mind. your wife doesn't seem to have her priorities in line, you seem to have known for a long time that your kid is #1 priority while hers is the big O. Sorry to hear this has happened to you, hopefully someone's advice is helpful for you.
__________________
A common mistake that people make when trying to design something completely foolproof is to underestimate the ingenuity of complete fools.
-Douglas Adams
|