A few words from one who has taken the plunge.
After pregnancy I was left with a a tummy that I thought was hideous. My ex husband said it didn't bother him but it bothered the hell out of me. This troubled me even more after we divorced especially as I piled on some weight for a while. After dithering for a year I put myself on a diet and fitness regime and regained my normal weight and some improved tone but I was still very inhibited by my saggy tum so I saw my doctor who found me a good local cosmetic surgeon . Having decided to go ahead I trotted off to the bank to arrange a loan. The look on the young (male) account managers face made me smile. When I told him what it was for....he blushed crimson, gulped and then processed the arrangement with some haste.
Three years on and I have never had any regrets. My old confidence is back and I am able to enjoy being naked again. Make no mistake there is a subtantial scar but it has faded considerably and I would do it again without doubt. As for getting the cosmetic surgery bug it's true I have toyed with the idea of having my face lifted but I probably won't...it's not that bad and is ageing 'normally' unlike my tummy which looked like it belonged to a ninety year old.
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