Congrats on the wedding and the soon-to-be newborn. You're a little scared - that's okay. You should be. You are bringing a life into this world that will rely completly on you to protect and guide him/her. You should feel very lucky. Not everyone is given the opportunity you have.
Things always have a way of working out. Selfish for feeling you can't take the trips you want - why can't you? Even if they're not "kid-friendly" spots, eventually your child will be old enough to trust w/a grandparent for a weekend. And then you have other trips you can plan w/the child, like Disney.
The child may not have been planned, but he/she is on the way. Do the best you can to prepare yourself (and that won't be enough). But above all else, cherish him/her.
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