I don't think number of partners is important. If anything, i like the idea of a lady with more experience than me because it means that she could probably show me a thing or two. Besides, as long as someone is safe you really have nothing to worry about, unless your the kind of person who can always find something to worry about.
As for the relevance of history, it is only as relevant as you believe it is. I know plenty of people with chemdep problems who were defacto pieces of shit when they were using who seem now to be productive and functional people. People can change.
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