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Personally, I feel that "how many " is really not the question to ask regarding "slutdom"
just because a woman enjoys sex should not cause her to be labeled negatively- in fact, I think that I and most of my male, (hell, the female ones too) friends would like to advocate strongly for sexual experimentation to be an expected part of any male or females early adult lives- the thing that makes a woman , or a man, a slut, imho, is whether she or he CHEATED on any of their partners- sorry, but cheating is something I cannot abide, and feel that if someone cheats, unless there is a MAJOR life changing event, they are always going to be damned untrustworthy and a major relationship risk......I have many friends that have had partners with high "numbers" and the deciding factor has not once been whether he or she had fucked a lot of people before- it has however often been whether he or she had fucked around on a previous partner....... those people, I have sadly found from personal experience, can in the words of shakespere "smile and smile, and still be a villian"
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