|
I meant to post something to this thread yesterday, but my browser barfed up my post. I think the original question posed by jillian has been answered in the thread, probably first by maleficient, but I'm not scrolling back to verify.
On the general discussion surrounding it, I think the only non-repeater I have to (somewhat add) is that in my experience, it *usually* works out best if both people are within a certain bracket of one another. I would put the brackets something like :
0
1-5
6-10
11-20
21-50
50-100
100+
Not that's sure thing, as others have testified from their own experiences, but in my experience - for committed relationship development - it usually happens that people who have similar attitudes towards sex will fall close to each other's bracket. It also depends on age difference, of course. And although sexual attitudes don't tell the full story of someone, it's an important component of a healthy relationship and *may* give some indication of a person's general perceptions of morality, ethics, religious committment, etc.
For example, asking one of my best friend's super-duper never-had-sex 24 year old virgin little sister to have a committed relationship with someone who was very sexually promiscuous would be like asking her to brush her teeth with slug shit, in her opinion.
__________________
You don't love me, you just love my piggy style
|