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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
ok so I had a lot of partners before I got married....does that mean Im going to always be that way? I have spent most of the last 14 years monogamous with two men 11 years with one...NO sex for 2 years and then the last year with one man.
I wouldnt say my early sexual experiences were indicative of how I've lived my life from 1990 to now
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Probably not; no risk assessment is perfect. And obviously the last decade or so would change the risk assessment (if the potential partner were aware of it).
This isn't a personal indictment; I'm not saying a girl who'd had a thousand partners couldn't be a wonderful, perfect lover. I'm saying there are rational reasons why she wouldn't be my first choice. I don't expect everyone to agree with me, but in the larger population I think there are more guys who care than who don't. You are probably right that many guys hold a double standard; that's sad. But if I were a woman I'd be leery of guys with triple digit counts as well.