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I take a LONG time to prep. After several guys, my current b/f has been the one that has given me my first orgasm.
We took an afternoon, with no distractions, for this to happen, and yes it took a LONG time. I personally do not get off having sex, so I need the oral, hands, toys etc. to do the work.
He started with his hand. I told him what I liked, and he watched my body reactions so that he would know when he hit the right spot. Slowly, with my help and directions, but surely he got me off. The important part is that he learned alot about how my body works.
Yes there are still times that he can't get me off, such is life, but recently he introduced me to a finger vibrator. Yes, I know it's just a finger vibrator, but it gets me close enough so that he can finish the job every time.
In case you are interested, it is the Fukuoku 9000
Also, when we are messing around, he constantly kisses on me and sucks my nipples. That helps also.
Hope this helps.
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