I've always been one of those girls that takes a very long time to cum, and I can't cum during intercourse without a lot of help (hands, toys etc).
I'm with a new partner, and so I'm in the unfortunate situation where yet again, I have to teach someone how to get me off.... and I'm finding it hard. We have sex a LOT.. multiple times a night, and first thing in the morning. But because I take so long to cum, he's never given me an orgasm.
What I need is a very long oral session, but his head gets tired. Or it's super late and he gets up very early for work. Or we don't have a night without a babysitter... etc.
To make matters worse, if I'm worried about it (how long I'm taking, that he has work the next day etc), then I don't get close to cumming, it takes even longer.
Is there anyone out there that used to take a very long time to cum that learned how to cum faster? I really want to learn methods for making my orgasms happen more quickly.
The only luck I've had is if I get CRAZY horny with a lot of foreplay, or watching a LOT of porn, then I cum really quickly. Maybe I need to rev myself up beforehand alone?
I'm sure things will come eventually... but I'm beginning to get frustrated.. which only makes it worse.
