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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
ok so I had a lot of partners before I got married....does that mean Im going to always be that way? I have spent most of the last 14 years monogamous with two men 11 years with one...NO sex for 2 years and then the last year with one man.
I wouldnt say my early sexual experiences were indicative of how I've lived my life from 1990 to now
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No it doesn't but you can't totally ignore a person's past. As has been said if one of your beaus told you he beat several of his past girlfriends you wouldn't be a LITTLE leary that it could happen to you? That's what I'm saying at least I don't know about others, but if a woman admitted to me that at say 24 years old she was approaching triple digits of sexual partners...I would have no REAL way of knowing how commited she would be able to be in a relationship. And I weigh things like that very heavily. I'm a creature of information. I won't even buy something as mundane as deoderant without at least a LITTLE bit of research first. So suffice to say if the history of my potential mate isn't up to my standards then I won't be bothering. I would expect no less from the other side because if a woman isn't judging me at least a little on what I've done and accomplished in the past I'm not sure if she would at all be serious about a relationship with me.