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Well we talked again today and she told me she has done some looking into a lawyer and everything. I told her that I am not contesting anything so we can both use the same attorney if one at all. We could do the paperwork ourselves. The kids will be in joint custody with me being the primary. I told her she had to pay for everything cause I was not the one that wanted this to happen in the first place. She acted rather pissy, but it was because of the money issue. We talked about the fact that there is a 60 day waiting period and I asked her if she was at all interested in seeing a councilor. She said that she was no longer intersted and that she would just be wasting my time and money. She has no desire to try and make things work. And then accused me of not trying to keep our marriage together. (after I said she was going to pay for it all cause she was the one that left and wants nothing to do with getting back together.) So I just laughed and she got upset and said something about me always being a cerntain way and then said she was hanging up. Sooo, one would think that instead of just hanging up the phone that she would try and work out our differences by talking about them. But no she would rather just get upset and walk away from any confrontations. Its the same shit I have been dealing with with her for years. I was talking to the girl that I hooked up with, and I said something that I did not realize untill just recently. But even if she were to apologize and want to come back, that I probably would not take her cause I really don't like her personality and her attitude. I always put up with them, but I never liked it. Now I can find someone that I will have a good connection with that is exactly what I want in a partner.
So things are over, now I just have to get a decent lawyer and finish this shit. I just wonder how long it is going to take to get into another serious relationship? and how will this one effect my future relationships?
sorry for spelling, I am not rereading this, I am at work
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It's hard to remember we're alive for the last time
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It's hard to remember that our lives are such a short time
It's hard to remember when it takes such a long time
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