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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
Many partners doesnt necessarily signify that a woman cant commit....it signifies that she hasnt found one she WANTS to commit to.
Again I ask...how are we as women supposed to feel about guys that have more experience? Are we supposed to tell them that oops sorry you've had several partners so that means I'll never be special to you?
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No, it doesn't necessarily signify that, but it's a warning signal. You have to weigh the odds and make a judgement. Having had some prior SO's for long periods of time would improve the odds, in my assessment.
As for how I would weigh things if I were a woman -- best I can guess is the same. "several" is one thing, but if a guy told me he'd had 100 prior partners he probably wouldn't be first on my list.
Then again, I'm risk averse; other people will decide things differently. My point was I don't think it's crazy to consider the number of partners.