well being a single mother of 2 i can believe her and what she wants from you... just because i have kids doesnt mean i want them to give them allowance or or punish them... on the other hand if the relationship does last and progress the man i am seeing will be apart of their lives.... so in a way im a package deal if u are in it for the long haul... if its not for u dont be afraid and tell her u like her and want to take it slow... us single moms realize its a lot to handle nad we arent going to be shocked if a guy goes running for the hills.. in fact we almost expect it... doesnt mean that it doesnt hurt or bum us out we just know that its a tough pill to swallow
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