I also take a long time to get aroused. What my b/f and I have found is that he will work on me (kissing, necking, sucking) that sort of thing. He'll even finger and do oral a bit.
He will get me to a point that I am almost about to orgasm. Once this occurs, we'll have sex. He comes faster then me, so by working me up to orgasm we end up coming together (most of the time).
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