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Eh, the girl probably just wants to go out and have a little fun. New moms often can't get out much. Meet her for coffee or something non-committal like that. You've only talked to her on-line so your first face to face should be fairly informal anyway. She can't force you to suddenly take responsibility for her child so just keep your wits about you and don't fall in LOVE with her. If you're looking for a long-term relationship and don't want a child then I would say run away, far far away and don't look back. Also, she just broke up with the father of her baby. I'd see how distraught this guy is. You could be walking into a very difficult situation. Don't ask for trouble you can do without. So, all in all if you can keep it casual you are probably ok. If you think you might get serious, not a good idea. BTW All single girls with babies use the "I'm not looking for a Dad for my kid." line. Not that they are lieing, they just know babies are a red flag to most guys so they try to minimize the issue as much as possible.
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