I've been reading this thread for a while but never said anything. This is very sad...but even though I don't know both perspectives of the matter, this woman doesn't respect you, it's a fact. She seems to be playing with you...or she's really messed up. You need to choose what will make you and your kids happiest in the long run. Sounds to me like it's time to get out...good luck to you.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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