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It depends on what the ex was looking for in your relationship. If someone heads into a relationship with the thought that the person they are dating might just be the one, and they find out that they are just one of many (apart from bruising the ego somewhat), it might suggest that you see sex as something apart, or different from, a meaningful relationship. Sometimes sex and relationships become entwined, it's not always easy to separate one from the other.
If you were both together for a good time, then great, but if he wanted to think that you might settle down and consider him as a possible 'one' then it's bound to put him off.
It's not a double standard, just different ways of looking at and understanding sex.
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