Originally Posted by maleficent

Was she like this before you got married? Were you a horndawg before you married?

Sexual compatibility is important, not everyone is sexually compatible, so if it was there before... What's changed?

You use the phrase.. "I don't think..." have you asked her what's up? Have you two sat down, fully clothed, and had a conversation about this, not accusing each other of anything, but stating how you feel.

It might be your conversational style, but it sounds like she's getting a lot of pressure from you, which , is a turn off, you will get exactly the opposite of what you are expecting.

What you have with your wife is a relationship, but you ask the question HOW CAN I get her to do what she doesnt do? -- So you want your wife to change... maybe be something she's not capable or willing...