I think this is also something that you should talk about. I know a lot of folks who are in relationships where no one is allowed to even think about what anyone else looks like.
You like your S/O for more than what she looks like. You and she, while I am sure you are both attractive, are not the hottest people on planet earth. It should be okay to look around and even sometimes speak about it. If not, pressure can build up that can lead to unhealthy results later.
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