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Personally, I have a very stressful workplace where I am managing a bunch of idiots who refuse to listen to me, cry literally when I point out their mistakes, I get reprimanded by higher management for not fixing my underlings... THis all turned me very sour, I forgot about sex, stopped paying attention to my fiance, I forgot to ask her about her day and spend the time to understand her daily life. I would bitch and moan about my situation to the point where not only was the sex bad (I do my thing and she rolls over when I am done) but it got to a point where we finally broke everything off.
Don't let things dwell as is. I wish my fiance took the time to understand my issues and she wished I took the time to deal with hers... Take some time aside for just the two of you to have a very straight forward conversation before it gets to a point like mine. She ended up falling for a fellow actor/ cast member in a play she was in during my neglect...
Wish you luck and hope you don't endure what I went through. Obviously I didn't have that long of a relationship to have older kids. It was a four year relationship with our marriage pending a year away.
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