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Originally Posted by davidc209
Last weekend was a typical wild and crazy time. At a party, I ended up hooking up with this chick that I've known for about a year. She's not a friend, just someone who I've been bumping into a lot at various house parties of mutual friends.
I knew that she's a hardcore Christian... I mean, we're talking rarely misses church on Sundays, usually has a bible nearby, can often be heard saying stuff like... "Jesus did this.. so it must be ok". She initiated the hookup, so I went along. (did jesus do hookups in his younger years??  )
Over the weekend, we did just about everything except for sex. That's one thing she wouldn't do because Jesus says no to premarital sex. But blowjobs are ok??? Apparently so.
I'm pretty sure this was a one time thing with her, but I'd really like to hear the Christian perspective on the whole "sex is bad, but blowjobs are ok" thing. Besides offering advise not to hookup with religious girls, what do you make of this?! |
The way I understand it, our Christian friend would only be hypocritical if she was telling other people how they should behave in their sex lives. It sounds like she is behaving in accordance with her beliefs, whatever they may be.
I do find it rather hypocritical that people are lashing out against her because her ideas are different than the majority of the people in this thread. Who is pushing the ideology here? I am non-religous, but anybody who makes blanket statements like "I don't like (fill in the group of people)" worry me. You don't have to have religion to be fundamentalist.